In February I started a garden in bare, neglected ground. Over five months I dug out green plastic netting, dog shit, pieces of asphalt, mallows, too many weeds to count. I added compost, coffee grounds, egg shells, vegetable scraps. I carted home pine boughs and pine needles, sticks and leaves I found in the gutters. I bought plants, I was given plants. I raised tomatoes and peppers from seed. I planted squash and beans, basil and tomatoes. The Sun Gold tomato took over almost an entire fence line. I added sunflowers and blue sweet peas.
With the miracle of sun and water, things grew. Two-inch squash appeared on the butternut vines, more than one, more than two, as the vines reached out into the yard for more sun. The beans and tomatoes were awash in blossoms, the green beans too tiny to pick yet, the shelling beans swelling. I was so happy and proud of my first home vegetable garden in sunny San Leandro. I fed friends chard and kale and gave away extra tomato seedlings.
And then I had to leave, not an easy decision. A situation arose that I could not live with and we could not come to an agreement about it. There is plenty of love left, but nothing to do with it at present, just as there were plenty of vegetables in the garden when I left and no one to tend them. Unless my ex-landlord or someone Johnny knows steps in to take care of it, the garden will die. In its death as in its life the bean roots will nourish the soil, fixing nitrogen. The plants will go back to the soil which gave them part of their life. I had custody of the garden for a brief time, enough time to grow things, but not enough time to gather in the entire harvest.
June finds me back at my mother’s house, sleeping on a sofa, my belongings in the capacious living room in boxes and bins and garbage bags. My mother and brother have been working on the never-refinished hardwood floor of my old bedroom and I can’t move my stuff in there yet. I brought with me several tomato seedlings and three pepper plants. One of the pepper plants appears to have a broken stem and may die soon. The other two are sitting outside in a copper bowl, waiting for me to find somewhere to plant them. My sister-in-law brought a large, healthy-looking tomato seedling from her house and we must find a place for that, too. We put three tomato plants in cages in two large buckets. I have many seeds left, but nowhere to plant them: I’ll find a pot for some Thai basil and perhaps some other herbs, but I will be beginning again in the foggy land in the path of the Golden Gate.
Meanwhile, I blanch and scrape citrus peel — I had saved peel for five months in the freezer and there is no room for it here. To save it, I have been working for three days, blanching and scraping lemon, lime, orange and grapefruit rinds. As I write, the orange peel is done and beginning to dry, the lemon and lime simmers on the stove and the grapefruit in the refrigerator awaits its hour-long sugar bath. The methodical scraping of pith with a steak knife was meditative, the long hours of labor calming the mind: it was good to have something simple to do, although after twelve hours or so I would be glad to see the labor ended. I thought I might be canning tomatoes and beans this summer — instead I am harvesting citrus peel for baked goods. As I blanch and scrape, perhaps I will leach any bitterness from my soul and let my heart rest in the sweetness of life, the sweetness of each tiny blessing. I am grateful to be able to read and write, to smell the clean, sharp citrus in the air. I am grateful for my readers, friends and family and grateful for a sweet life that I had for nearly two years.
Lovely to have your words on this warm evening.
Thank you, Lisa.
I’m feeling a heart ache and a lump in my throat. I wish you the best. I’m glad you have plants that will produce for you.
Thanks, Teri. We’ll see how they do in their new environment — they’re looking kind of stunted and shocked in their big new buckets.
Oh Sharyn my heart breaks for you, really does. The energy and love you invested in that garden reflected your relationship, both gone now. Your eternal optimism shines through in this post but the smell of citrus cannot cover the pain, disappointment and disillusion you must be struggling with at this time. My thoughts are with you, big and warm hugs my friend…
Thank you, John. My heart is broken, but they say the heart can be broken open and good can come of it. At any rate, people are treating me kindly and I had a wonderful, life-enhancing love for awhile.
I have no words. I have felt heartache, and I know it isn’t an easy path to traverse. I wish you well as you get back on your feet…
Thank you, Movita, for your kind wishes.
Sharyn I’m so sorry you found love and it didn’t work out. Your writing, as ever, is so honest and open and in this post poignant. Drawing parallels to your vegetable garden and how the beans will now die back and add nitrogen to the soil resonates with me. I don’t know what else to say, except that I wish we were closer and I could share a patch of my allotment with you, so you could work the soil and watch the growth and harvest to help in the healing. Oh for a magic wand and some fairy dust x
Thank you, Claire. I appreciate your kindness.
I have missed your reading, and apologise for not returning sooner. I cannot understand how you are feeling, but am so sorry for such a loss. I do remember your utter love and devotion to your beautiful plants.
Hope you get back up and running in full gear soon
x
Hugs
Uru
Thank you, CCU. It is kind of you to comment. You seem to be a busy person. I have a couple of tomato and pepper plants in buckets here: they have put on growth, but no blossoms yet…
Oh Sharyn. I’m so sorry to hear this. I understand the therapeutic benefits of concentrated work in the kitchen. I’m so happy to hear that you are with your loved ones now. I hope your heart heals quickly. As they say it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. My thoughts are with you. X P.s. have you read Like water for chocolate? I read this recently and it made me think of you. I think you might enjoy it
I don’t think I actually read Like Water for Chocolate. And I agree with you, better to have loved — I wouldn’t have missed my time with Johnny for anything: I’m just sorry we couldn’t work things out.
Wishing you more love in your future.. I’m so sorry to read this today. Beautiful piece of writing, though.. a really lovely melancholic metaphor..
Thank you, Barbara. There was a recent sighting of my former garden. Somehow the butternut squash survived drought and all and were seen to be all over the yard, Life goes on.